Learn to love it

im of the unpopular opinion that women, especially submissives, should learn to love sucking cock. I get annoyed when women complain that they don't like to give head. It's all about attitude. As a submissive, the most important thing is to please your dominant. I've never met, or heard of, any man who doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex. I used to have a problem with it, but I got over it. Find a comfortable position, (I do it on my back, with Daddy kneeling above me). Sex is half mental. Remind yourself that good girls please their Dom, and enjoy it.

Introduction

What is This?

This blog is themed around the BDSM lifestyle, with occasional focus on the Daddy/little dynamic of Dom/sub relationships, as well as other topics of interest that might come up from time to time. Our goal is both to inform and to spark discussion while keeping our readers entertained. Our hope is that we can have a positive impact both for people just entering the world of BDSM, and those who are experienced in the lifestyle.

Who are You?

Your writers, "Daddy" and "kitten" are a married couple living in the Midwest. We started out relatively vanilla when dating and for the first half of our marriage, but started exploring Dom/sub dynamics several years ago. After a few years of on/again off/again experimentation, we discovered the Daddy/little dynamic, which worked very well for us because it suited both of our personalities and desires better than other dynamics we tried.

High Heels?

High heels alter a woman's posture and gait to make her more sexually attractive. In essence, a woman wearing heels walks in a manner that emphasizes feminine traits to the point of hyper-femininity. One study even makes the claim that when women wear heels, they are more persuasive to men (but not to other women). Heels are also symbolic of more traditional male and female roles, which is a big part of many Dom/sub dynamics.

Hand Cuffs?

Bondage isn't for everyone, and some in the Dom/sub lifestyle prefer to use psychological domination over physical restraint. For many subs, though, being physically restrained and made helpless greatly enhances their arousal and sensations and allows Doms to impose very real and very immediate control over their subs. Hand cuffs, rope, chains, leashes and other types of restraints are all means of establishing the dynamic of dominance and helplessness that Doms and subs crave.

Stuffies?

As in stuffed animals. This seems to be an almost universal hallmark of littles, that they absolutely adore their stuffies and would love to have more. Stuffies represent the endearing way that a little takes comfort in simple, innocent pleasures and they give Daddy a reliable of way of surprising and delighting his little.